"Love Is Always Having
Someone To Blame"
By Rhonda Audia, LISW
Someone To Blame"
By Rhonda Audia, LISW
(Sing to Love Is a Many Splendored Thing)
Love is always having someone to blame
Love's fantasies, meet reality, and we feel disdain.
We use blaming as a cover; to hide our fear to trust each other.
I doubt you care, so I pull your hair,
You put up a wall, I push and you fall.
Once in a hot and winded fight,
Two lovers hissed, then stopped and kissed,
And said "We must change"
They learned to hear, each other's fear, to soothe each other's pain
Connected as "WE," sure beats “YOU verses ME!”
Everyone wants to be a "WE." We all dream of a love that will be the answer to feelings of lonliness and inadequacy.
But, relationships are complicated and push us either to learn...or to blame. Many a couple gets lost in the "shadows" of conflict, disappointment and emotional disconnection. We all hope for destination of happy but don't have realistic exectations about the journey or a a "roadmap" to get there.
We can all use a relationsionship "guru" who can disperse the shadows and enlighten our path to connection and happiness.
My name is Rhonda Audia and I have over 25 years experience helping people acquire the insight and the tools to have more loving and lasting connections. I founded the Guru For Two Counseling Center in Loveland, Ohio to offer "enlightened" relationship counseling and education.
The Guru For Two knows these FOUR Relationshp Truths:
- Relationships have happy times and "shadowy" times BUT there is a roadmap to guide you - The Four Stages of We.
- Conflict is normal and necessary for true intimacy to evolve. Even though conflict is unavoidable, disconnection is OPTIONAL.
- The Guru For Two offers a three steps to maintain a Conscious Connection with your partner.
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The three steps to Conscious Connection are ACCEPT, ATTUNE, AFFIRM
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