Instead of waiting for the "right" partner, focus on how to be the "right" partner! The minute you stop trying to change someone else, your relationship finally has a chance to change.
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- Are you willing to reveal your softer, more vulnerable feelings? Are you attuned to your partner's needs?
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Are you allowing MUTUAL influence and control in your relationship? Or are you having trouble sharing? - Do you believe that you have a good grasp on what the problem between the two of you REALLY IS? Hint: The problem is never all ME and it is never all YOU.
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How do you want to behave or act on an ongoing basis? What do you want to stop, start, and do more or less of?
- Are you honoring your mutual needs for understanding, empowerment, and play?